What Is Burnout—and How Do You Know If You Have It?

You’re juggling a demanding career, a full calendar, and a life that doesn’t stop moving. On the outside, it might look like you’ve got it all under control—but inside, you're mentally drained, emotionally flat, and wondering how much longer you can keep pushing through.
Sound familiar? You might be experiencing burnout.

What Is Burnout, Really?

Burnout isn’t just “being tired.” It’s a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress—especially when that stress is tied to roles where you feel responsible for others (like caregiving, teaching, healthcare, or leadership roles).

The World Health Organization defines burnout as a syndrome stemming from chronic workplace stress, but many women experience burnout from the cumulative demands of life: work, parenting, caregiving, and the invisible emotional labor of “holding it all together.”

Common Symptoms of Burnout in Women

Burnout can show up differently for everyone, but common signs include:

  • Chronic fatigue, even after sleep

  • Trouble concentrating or making decisions

  • Increased irritability or anxiety

  • Feeling emotionally numb or disconnected

  • Physical symptoms (like headaches, GI upset, or muscle tension)

  • A sense of failure or lack of accomplishment

  • Withdrawal from friends, hobbies, or joy

  • Feeling “trapped” in your life

Many women also describe it as a lingering fog, a loss of identity, or a sense that they’re just going through the motions.

Burnout vs. Depression: What’s the Difference?

Burnout and depression can look similar, but they aren’t the same. Burnout tends to be tied to specific roles or situations (like work or caregiving), while depression is more global and can affect all areas of life. However, untreated burnout can eventually lead to depression.

A mental health provider can help you distinguish the two and build a plan for healing.

Why High-Functioning Women Are Especially at Risk

If you’re successful, organized, and the one others turn to for support, you might think, “I’m not the kind of person who gets burned out.” But burnout often affects exactly those women—the ones who keep going, no matter how depleted they feel.
Because you're capable, no one sees how much you’re carrying. And because you're always “fine,” you don’t get the support you need… until you hit a breaking point.

What You Can Do About It

Healing from burnout isn’t about bubble baths and vacations (although rest matters!). It's about:

  • Reassessing your priorities

  • Setting boundaries

  • Improving sleep, nutrition, and nervous system regulation

  • Getting support from someone who understands

  • Exploring treatment options like therapy, medication, or supplements

Burnout recovery is a process—and it’s one that should be tailored to you.

At The Serene Sanctuary, we specialize in helping women recover from burnout with holistic mental health care—combining medication support, lifestyle strategies, and emotional tools that actually fit your life.

Schedule a free 15-minute consult today and start your path to feeling like yourself again.
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